Member-only storyTo Live and Grieve in AmericaA republic, if we can keep it.Sara Benincasa·Follow9 min read·May 25, 2022--41SharePhoto by the author, South Carolina Lowcountry, April 2022“I prefer someone who burns the flag and then wraps themselves up in the Constitution over someone who burns the Constitution and then wraps themselves up in the flag.” — Molly Ivins“So what, my dear…